Dr. Spence Pentland
Dr. TCM · Founder & Clinical Director
Dr. Pentland’s Perspective on Fertility After 35
When a woman sits across from me worried about her age, I want to understand what she’s been told and what she’s carrying. Often, she’s read the statistics and is feeling the pressure of time. Age matters. We have to respect the biology. But let’s look at the bigger picture. What is your reproductive history? What have we learned from testing or previous treatments? How is your health? Those pieces help us understand where you are and what makes sense next.
Then we ask: what can we actually influence? We’re looking at the health of the person producing those eggs, and when there is a male partner, the health of the man producing the sperm. Both deserve attention. We want to make good use of the time we have, supporting your health while you explore or continue fertility treatment.
One thing I’ve learned in 22 years of practice is that more isn’t always better. There’s no end to the supplements, dietary advice, and things you can feel you should be doing. I like to boil it down to a few meaningful priorities for the person in front of me. What needs attention? What can you reasonably sustain? There has to be room for you in this process, too. And if you wish you’d come sooner, let’s start where you are today. You don’t need another thing to feel guilty about. We need to understand your options and build a plan that fits your life.
— Dr. Spence Pentland